We found out today our only option is to do the surgery where they cut into his testicles and look for sperm the doctor started him on clomid for 2 months in hopes to increase our chance of finding sperm for his surgery I’m so sad guys you have no idea 50/50 chance is still really low. If they find anything it will be used for <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a>.

I think we will go through with it but I’m so sad guys. Like I was holding so much in when he told us the news.

Have any one of y’all had success doing this?

I think if it works it will be so worth it but if it doesn’t we wasted money when we could’ve did a sperm doner.

The doctor said we should discuss whether we want to do the surgery or a doner or adoption.

But our only choice after the surgery is doner.

I want to experience the pregnancy. But I will still be real sad knowing it’s not my husbands baby how did I cope? My so keeps saying I’m acting like the end of the world and they will find sperm but I know it’s 50/50 chance.

I don’t know how to handle the feelings of all of this. To me it’s not okay but to him he seems calm.