Am I not wife material if guys just want to have sex with me?

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I never give guys any indication that I want to have sex because I don't! All I want is to go on dates and maybe find someone but all guys want these days is sex. 
My friend told me that white guys only want to have sex with black girls to brag to their friends...

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Your friend is an idiot. 
Guys only wanting to have sex with you is a problem on their part...not yours and has nothing to do with being "wife material" they just aren't looking for a committed relationship most likely. You'll find someone who wants all of you, not just sex from you.

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Wtf?? Idk where you live, but that’s some racist bullshit. Where are you finding these guys? Yes, a lot of men are trash, but also, there are a lot of great guys out there. I met my boyfriend on tinder and the only reason I agreed to do more than just massage him was because he was the only one not asking for nudes or saying anything sexual. But I also went into it looking for friends, not hookups. Maybe you just need to look for a  friend before thinking about going straight to “wife material”. And just be straight up with what you’re looking for and not looking for because a lot of and most people or dating apps or finding people in bars or whatever are just trying to fuck and that has nothing to do with you.

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I don’t wanna say your friends are right but let’s be real a lot of white boys wanna say they bagged a black chick. We’re highly sexualized. I don’t think you can put all white guys approaching you in one box, just feel them out. If you see a red flag, don’t ignore it🤷🏽‍♀️ if you don’t just want sex let them know from jump and don’t waste your time.

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Uhmmmmmm. Your friends are idiots, I've dated plenty of white makes that were the utmost gentlemen. In fact out of all the ones I dated only had sex with one, not including my husband lol

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I have the same issue with guys, only my friends don’t understand why I struggle to get dates/relationships. I have my own place, pay my own bills, I cook my own food etc but guys just want to get laid with me they aren’t interested in getting to know me. Men are just pricks

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I didn’t understand the answers so I’m commenting. Every is deserving of love and not just sex. Sometimes it takes a long time to find the perfect man that isn’t a piece of trash. If I were you one get rid of your friends because that is literally the trashiest thing I’ve heard people say. And 2 don’t give up. Just keep going on dates but be upfront and clear that you aren’t looking for sex and are long for long term.

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Physically hot, mentally impaired, guys will fuck anything because they get away with it. Date a man with a brain and reject those weirdos.

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fuck i voted wrong! sorry the wording confuses me sometimes on polls. 
you can have casual sex and still be wife material. don’t listen to any slut shamers

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You’re looking in the wrong places then

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I haven’t had that happen to me so I think it depends on you as well as those men

Am I not wife material if guys just want to have sex with me?

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