I am typically a straight to the point kind of person.  A lot of people don't know how to handle that because it's hard for them to face reality.  I think others must think they live in a bubble and how dare me say that to them.  It's just who I am and at least you know where I stand.  I don't waste my time on pretending to like someone to get a compliment from them.  I don't feed off that.  I am very confident and strong willed, however I can be mistaken as being heartless. I don't want others to get false hope. Someone needs to tell them like it is sometimes, it doesn't make you heartless it makes you honest to be that way!!!!!!