For a while now i have really been getting jealous of those people who are so charismatic, are the life of the party, make friends easily, don’t have any problem stirring up a conversation, and are just outgoing in general. This got worse when I came into High School. I’m just shy, it’s not as easy for me to spark conversations, I’m not fun at parties unless i’m comfortable, or someone is hyping me up, and i just have a soft personality that people don’t really respect. I wish I could change this. So is this bad and should I work on it? or is it just how I am, and I should embrace it?