Talking to fiancé about TTC

Anna

What to do when fiancé wants to wait YEARS??? I’m getting married 6 months from today, and I’m eager to start TTC as soon as we can after getting married. My fiancé will be 30 and I’ll be 24. He’s said before he wants to have kids sooner rather than later (all his friends are having kids) and I do too since we’ve had 2 mc over the last 5 years. Then tonight he goes “we should wait a year or two, maybe three”😭😭😭 It’s heart-wrenching because I at least want to start trying we get married. After 2 mc I don’t know how long it’ll take to get pregnant.

Have you had any conversations like this with your SO??