What to do

Okay so here's the load down. I am level 1 or mildly autistic and my boyfriend is a little more autistic than I am. A year ago he moved from Washington state to Texas state with his mom for his dying grandma, we dont talk too much and even before he moved I would be able to visit him a lot (his mom doesn't want us alone for so long cause she doesn't want us to be young parents out of wedlock) and I want to visit him for our 3rd year anniversary but I am low on money and I am also babysitting my one year old baby brother. Should I try working things out and visit him for a week or no? I don't know what to do