My boyfriend asked me for a 3sum?

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So basically he asked me and I wouldn't wanna imagine another woman being with my man, and somehow I took the question disrespectfully. Am I just being hormonal?:/

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Threesomes are one of the most common fantasies guys have. The fact that he asked you and you're offended means you are not on the same page sexually. If you have been together and exclusive for a long time, I would be offended because in my mind a threesome breaks being exclusive. If you haven't been together that long, he may just be curious to know if you're willing to play out one of his fantasies. If you tell him you would never consider it, and he drops it, that's ok. That means being with you is more important than playing out this fantasy. If he keeps asking in the future hoping you'll change your mind, then I would assume you're sexually incompatible and send him packing.

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There’s nothing wrong with asking. As long as your clear that you don’t want to, and he doesn’t keep pressuring it, then it’s perfectly fine.

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No I feel the same way and that in no way is being disrespectful I mean he asked you if you could and you said no cause your not comfortable with it. That in no way was disrespectful you were simply being honest

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I think it depends on how he asked, honestly. If it’s brought up respectfully, I would try to never be offended by a suggestion from my boyfriend, if he’s not pushy or rude about it. I mean, communication is the most important thing to maintain a healthy relationship, and he’s just trying to communicate a potential desire. If he asked in a way that left you room to say no, and he didn’t keep pushing when you made your opinion clear, I think that’s okay.
But I also don’t think it’s entirely unreasonable to be upset, especially if you’re the possessive type. If you’re very possessive and you feel like he should have known it would be a no and should never have asked, I can see why you’d be a little upset, but I still don’t think it’s worth getting REALLY angry over.
So, yeah, maybe it is hormones? But please remember that the CAUSE of your emotions will NEVER invalidate the EXISTENCE of your emotions. It’s good to keep in mind when you’re hormonal so you’re not a nightmare for everyone else, but your anger is still just as real as if there were a “”legitimate”” cause (I put it in quotes because any cause is legitimate; your emotions are ALWAYS valid) and people should still be patient and gentle with you.
I hope this helps somehow!

My boyfriend asked me for a 3sum?

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