So I recently got out of a two year relationship.. we both agreed it was the right option, and we split ways. So I started seeing a guy I’ve known for a few months through mutual friends. He was fun and always talked about sex with me which made me very intrigued.

Four days ago we had sex for the first time. It was amazing sex, I haven’t had something like it in a long time.. because well, his dick was a lot larger than my ex’s. And It was crazy rough sex.

About two days after the first time we had sex again, and I was so sore I couldn’t let him go all the way in because it felt like the back of my vagina was being ripped in half. I couldn’t even let him finish because it was hurting me so bad.

Is this normal? Sex never hurt me my first time. I have never felt pain like this. I’m guessing it’s because he is significantly larger than the other guys I have slept with.

Can someone give me tips on how to make the sore feeling go away, and how to make it not happen?