Does anyone else just get REALLY ANNOYED that...

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... there are so many accidental pregnancies?! Like... HOW?! I can count by 7s, 10s, 14s, and 28s on a calendar like you wouldn't believe. I have spent so much money peeing on OPKs that tell me exactly when I'm fertile. I put my finger up my vag religiously every day to see what kinds of *fluids* are up in there. I wake up at 5:30am just to see if my temperature has gone up .05 of a degree. I have sex even when I don't want to because it's raw and uncomfortable up there. And STILL. NO. BABY. With all the effort I'm putting into it, HOW do you just get pregnant on accident?!

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Yes and then you get people telling you to just relax and it’ll happen.

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The SECOND I started ttc another girl at work got pregnant on accident with her ex. The same month as my chemical ANOTHER girl at work got pregnant with her ex. One of our parents has a six month old and got pregnant too. I'm over here with all kinds of unmentionable goo on my finger, a stockpile of opks, a cup boldly labeled PEE in the bathroom so no one uses it to brush their teeth, and currently $1100 down the drain from unsuccessful insemination attempts. If I plan everything exactly right, down to the second. There is a whopping 30% chance I will get pregnant. How anyone gets pregnant on accident, I will never understand. The science literally doesn't explain it.

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Yes

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There are accidental pregnancies when women stop trying and obsessing so much to get pregnant. It happens.

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I totally get your frustration!!!! But trust our process !

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My husband and I have been trying for over 4 years. My younger sister found out shes 8 weeks pregnant by "accident". The father has beat her and half the time refuses to work but she says she did this so he would change. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ even though he has a 6 year old hes never allowed to see for beating the mother. They have no car and live with my parents! Now she saying she will just carry a baby for me since she can and I can't 😡 save me from trying not to go off on her.

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YES.  YEESSSS. omg. Yes.  I work in an alt ed school for teens with bad behaviors that have been explained from their district.  
There are so many accidental pregnancies for these children. And the babies go home to lives stuck by poverty horrible parents and people in drug situations. 
When we were trying for 5 years for my son it was painful every day.