I think he’s cheating.. long post.. My partner insists he’s not talking to other girls. But idk about it. He’s constantly adding girls on Snapchat and Facebook. He always has an excuse. “They added me” is something I’ve heard even though the notification states “accepted your friend request”.. why’s he reaching out to girls and saying their reaching out to him? Is he cheating.. I see girls adding him on snap and when I ask him why he adds them if he “doesn’t know them” he just says he doesn’t know etc etc. he says it’s not a big deal. He doesn’t have a phone right now and uses mine/the excuse he wouldnt cheat on my own phone. He talked this girl Abby a while ago.. they do have a history. He hit her up while he was at work one time saying he was anxious but she never said anything till later. He said he just didn’t know who to talk to. Then when we were going through something (me having conflicted feelings about who I wanted to be with when he said he didn’t want kids) he hit her up and said he had doubts and didn’t want a kid with me this and that. He ended up TTC with me anyway (I’m 13w now) and I thought it was over but she just hit him up saying she knew he was unhappy because he had told her. He says they never talked in between all the drama and that’s why the last thing she knew was that he didn’t want a baby with me. Idk if I buy it. All the girls he sends/accepts requests for.. is it really meaningless ? Am I that insecure that any pretty girl threatens me? I mean I just don’t see the equivalent of male notifications. It seems to just be girls.. and he took comfort in an ex and even shared with her his doubts.. it couldn’t have been another friend? Maybe someone he never tried to get to come over and fuck him? Please help by sharing experience or insight.