I had seen a post here earlier along the same lines but now I can't find it...

I have been dating this guy for a while now (8 months) and he works in the summer on a summer school program, but the rest of the year he collects unemployment. He spends most of his days sleeping and his nights playing video games.

He lives in his friends house, pays rent. He has a 10 year old daughter, and he helps out with her, both with time and money.

He does want to get a job, and is working on it but his other jobs stressed him out so much that he ended up having a break down and quitting.

He needs work as most of his money goes towards bills and his girl which leaves him with almost nothing for food.

I love this man. What can I do to help him get on the right track? He suggested going to therapy for the stress to help him maintain a job (he also has anxiety and ADD, so I think therapy would be good anyway)