My fiancé and I live in a small town where we go to college ..My fiancé is from Tyler which is an hour away and im from Houston which is 2 hours away.. My first child is due October 29th .. His parents got the idea of us meeting them in Henderson which is half way so they can take her for weekends or whenever they ask  I do not feel comfortable doing that at least during her first year of life .. My fiancé feels like she should be able to when she turns 3 months .. I believe If she is going anywhere I'm going with her.. I'm not saying that she can't spend the weekend there I'm saying she can't do it without me .. Am I wrong ??