hi all! about four days ago my boyfriend came clean to me after 8 months of dating about his alcohol problem. i broke up with him because i have asked so many times if he drinks anymore and he hid it from me for so long. he said he didn’t tell me because he didn’t want me to leave him and i’m the first person he told. we didn’t talk for like two days then he texts me yesterday. i’m still going through hell thinking about him crying all the time u know the deal. we tried being just friends today, it was strange. he wants me back. he asked if i could give him one day so we can talk and go out and do something so i can get better and heal. i said probably not because it will hurt me more but i really want to say yes. he knew about my trust issues and still lied to me and i understand it was to protect himself but it still hurts a lot.... being with him seems normal and right but that might just be what i’m used to. i’m trying to follow my soul and listen but i am really just having a hard time, especially since the wound is so fresh. should i give him a day? or is that a bad idea, he keeps trying and won’t give up on me and i’m flattered but i want to heal and knowing that he’s still there is making it hard to resist the temptation. will one day hurt me? i told him i don’t want to lead him on and i gave him so many chances. should i give him another one? please help my heart is torn.