Just want answers!! Going crazy!!

My husband and I had unprotected sex 1 or 2 days before ovulation. That was around Dec. 23. About a week later I thought I was experiencing early pregnancy symptoms (cramping, bloating, slight nausea?) It could have been in my head because I was so anxious about it. I waited until 13 or 14 days after sex and about 11/12 DPO before I took my first FRER (6 days sooner/brand name/pink dye) test. It was negative. I took another FRER (same pack) first thing this morning (2 days after expected period) and it was still negative, but still no real signs of my period. Sometimes I get menstrual-like cramps that make me feel like it is coming, but then they go away. I am still bloated. No spotting either. Help! I know no one can give me the answer I’m looking for, but any insight??

*also definitely possible that my tracker is a little off since I’ve been really bad about recording it, but I would think a 6 days sooner test would be picking something up by now if I were pregnant??*