Why does my first time have to hurt?

Question

every adult woman I talk to says that no matter what your first time will hurt.  FUCK THAT. That's why I've been stretching my hymen because there is no way in hell I'm going to fuck someone and just bare through the pain that sounds miserable.

Answer

It doesn't have to hurt.. and the hymen doesn't have to tear. The reason sex for most people who have sex the first time is because they aren't relaxed (because they are usually nervous during the first few encounters) making the vagina tense up which will cause pain because the vagina has tightened.. much like other tense muscles when being massaged they hurt in the beginning..but once they are relaxed you begin to enjoy the massage. Which is essentially why having sex for the first time typically hurts.

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Didnt hurt for me and i didn't do anything special. 🤷‍♀️

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Mine didn’t hurt. It doesn’t always hurt. The key is not to rush into it, lots of foreplay with each other first. Make sure you are relaxed. People who just try and shove a dick up there without anything else first probably weren’t turned on or wet enough.

Why does my first time have to hurt?

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