So frustrated!

Megan
I'm so so frustrated. My husband and I have been TTC since we got married three years ago. We weren't really trying at first, not just not preventing. We finally went to the doctor in June to check things out and see what's happening. We both had testing done (blood and urine for me and semen for him.) My test all came back great, hormone levels were all normal. My husbands results were all good except for his morphology (should be =>4% and his was 2%, meaning that he has an increased number of sperm with abnormal forms). Our doctor didn't really seem to know what that meant and recommended we see a fertility specialist. I was more than happy to do that but we then proceeded to wait more than 6 weeks for the clinic we were referred to to call us for an appointment. My husband talked to them today and the first appointment they had for us was January 11. Seriously, we've been waiting 6 weeks already and we have to wait another 4 months now. And the first thing they said they were going to do was an internal ultrasound on me. I know that I have to get check, more than just blood work but I wish that someone one would address the fact that my husbands morphology is so low. It feels like they're just assuming it's going to be an issue with me when we know there is abnormal with his semen. I think I'm just feeling like we're spinning our wheels and I can't get any answers other than what I'm able to research for myself. I just want to be pregnant and moving forward already. 😢