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My husband and I are 21 and have been together 5 years married two. And are anxious for kids. I've been wanting a family since I was little. We're not super financially well off but things are getting better. This last year we had several mis carriages but just makes the want stronger. But the last 6 months we have taken a break by me being on depo but are trying again soon. My mother in law doesn't think we should have children right now.... And not anytime soon....why?!? Because we're not making as much money as we cud be....and she thinks we shud wait until we're 25 or so and have more things figured out. And she thinks God "allowed" me to have the miscarriages. Isn't she supposed to want to be a grandma?!?! I know my mother really wants grand babies and wud love for us to have some babies but not my mother in law. It's caused a lot of resentment between me and her especially since she wasn't loving and supportive when I had lost my babies. Any advice? I'm so angry and hurt and it's hurting the hubby to see us fight.