Not Romantic

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He's never really been much of a romantic guy but when we first dated he'd surprise me here and there and our first Valentine's has been the first and last year he got me something. Our 2nd Christmas we had roommates who were couples he got our roommates gf a cute mug and he got me a mug with chocolates I got mad and told him it would of been nice to have him put more love into something than grabbing me the same gift as her. Since then I haven't got anything for Christmas let alone my birthday or Valentine's. Seeing all these videos and posts online of girls getting spoiled makes me depressed cause I wish I had that too. I've been in this depression since Xmas my Bday is in January and Valentine's is just around the corner. Am I over thinking this???