So I’m 21 years old living with my parents and I have a daughter. My boyfriend is the baby’s father but he’s in nursing school and we don’t live together because he’s super busy and I’d have no help. My mom is super supportive in everything I do and loves being a grandma to my 9 month old. I wanted better for myself and to have a career going. I decided I wanted to do phlebotomy for now because I really want to go to nursing school eventually but later on in life and this would give me opportunities to get my foot in the door. Regardless of having a lot on my plate I’m super driven to succeed. My parents had told me they would watch my daughter Tuesday and Thursday so I can attend this one year program and graduate. They seemed very supportive and my dad even said he has no issues watching my daughter and I know my mom doesn’t. Now that I’m signed up and about to start on Tuesday, my dad is showing a different side of things. I overheard him 2 days in a row in the morning talking with my mom saying how much watching my daughter on those days is going to put him out. I had no idea and now I feel so shitty. I wish he would of mentioned something to me prior to this so I can plan for something else. Now I’m stuck. I have no job because I want to go to school and day care out here is expensive. My mom was getting upset with my dad and said she would lose some of her hours at work because she wants me to go to school. My dad is just not on board anymore but he doesn’t tell me that he tells me he is. At this point it seems like my mom is making my dad do things he doesn’t want to do because I see a different side when he thinks I’m not around. This hurts. I feel so discouraged and don’t know if I should just drop out... has anybody been through this or have any advice?