It's only my second month trying, but in already frustrated. My cycles are long, and my body seems to send inconsistent signals. I've had ewcm twice this month, but without a temperature shift or positive ovulation kit. I'm on day 22 of my cycle with no signs of ovulation. My boyfriend just told me this morning that his friends say that I should stop trying, that they've never tried and they each have two children. Am I being ridiculous by expecting him to understand why I'm concerned and feel the need to chart?