My fiancé and I decided when we started talking about having kids that we would cloth diaper. We have told everyone around us we will not be doing disposable diapers and his grandma has been telling people to buy disposable diapers for our baby shower, she also put in the invites to buy them. I am not happy and don’t feel like I have the proper support from her or even my fiancé standing up to her about us using cloth diapers. I have told him he needs to talk to her about it and stop telling people to buy disposable diapers. How else can I get him to say something to her? I have told her in front of him and through messages that I do not want disposable diapers.

Yes I know that I can return them but being so close to the end of the pregnancy it will be kinda hard for me to do in the right amount of time.