Vent 😡

I just saw a post about a woman saying she is 12 weeks pregnant and wants advice on stopping smoking!!!!!!!!!! It made my blood boil. Why would you try if you are smoking? All the problems it brings to your baby! I smoked and stopped the day we started to try for a baby. 
It's not fair im over here trying my best doing everything right being healthy and she is there chuffing fags into the hopeless babies lungs. 
Am I being harsh??? How do you all feel about this x