What is the most extreme thing you've forgiven your SO for?

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Did he cheat? Abuse you? Call you a bad name? Flirt? Or something a bit more trivial?

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He farted on my hand.

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He ate the last bite of a chocolate chip cookie after I specifically saved te last bite to be the center with plenty of chocolate chips. and I had offered him some earlier and he declined. Let's not lie... I'm not sure I'm over it.

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We were engaged and he hit a bad spot in life. We were long distance cause I didn't have the money to move yet and he was trying to become a state trooper. Well he went through everything and they said that as long as he passed the eye exam he would be accepted and go to trooper school. Well, apparently they don't base the eye exam off corrective vision with contacts but off of uncorrected. With his contacts he sees perfectly. Without he didn't pass... He was really upset and felt like he wasn't man enough. Like he couldn't take care of me if we got married. So he decided he wasn't worthy and tried breaking up with me over the phone. Was also being suicidal because he had built so much around his dream of being a trooper. Anywho, he turned off his phone and I was afraid he would do something drastic. So. It was 1am. I called his parents and alerted them to try and contact him because he had threatened suicide. Then I got in my car and drove my butt the whole 11 hours to see him. Make sure he was okay. Eventually he felt silly for the whole ordeal and was very apologetic. Thankful that I didn't give up on him. But I was so pissed. Glad he was okay but extremely pissed off. This was literally two months before our wedding. Since then, he has become a deputy. We have a son on the way and our marriage is amazing. It was just a rough spot for him I guess.

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Oh my dear, loving, husband steals the blankets. Every. Night. Then he has the balls to GROWL at me in his sleep when I try to get some of them back.

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Before we started dating my boyfriend and I were just talking and basically were FBs well then one day out of no where he tells me he's going back to his ex girlfriend and we can't see each other anymore. Okay? That's not a problem with me, go for it. So I stop talking to him all together and honestly wasn't upset at all. He comes back about 2 weeks later and has me thinking he's no longer with this girl and so of course we go back to doing what we use to do, then I find out he's still dating her. Like wtf? So I tell him he has to choose right now or I'm making the choice for him and my choice would be not talking to him anymore. So he asks for me to give him a few days and I say hell no, and stop talking to him (again). Well then I start seeing this new guy and well my current boyfriend couldn't stand it. He broke up with his girlfriend and came crawling back to me, so I make sure he's done with this girl, and we start talking again an eventually dating. But he still gets hell for all that he done even 11 months later lol. Poor guy but he shouldn't try to run games on me because I am not the one to play that crap lol

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He blows his nose everytime he gets out of the shower and throws the toilwt paper in the tiolet. Then will clean out his ears with toilet paper also and throw it in the toilet.  Then he leaves it there.  I will go to the bathroom and I have to flush the toilet b4 I can even go. It looks like a 2 year old tried to wipe their butt and used too much toilet paper. Drives me crazy!!  He has gotten better now because I puke so much being pregnant, that I told him I will puke on his side of the bed if he doesn't stop...lol

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He cheated with 3 women while we were seperated for 4 months. I would have never found out had he not given me an STD, and I only found out because I got tested for a yeast infection when I was 7 months pregnant. I'm not a believer in divorce, so we're working on our marriage, one day at a time. If we can get past this, I'm pretty sure we can get past anything, though if he ever does it again, I won't hang around to work on it anymore.

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Deleting texts from and seeing another woman behind my back. No physical cheating...emotional cheating.

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Not protecting me from his mom's verbal abuse. But he couldn't protect himself at the time and therapy has helped a lot. So probably like 11 years ago when lied about interviewing for a job in another state. He's a horrible liar tho so it wasn't hard to figure out 😉

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When I was 16 my SO ran over my leg. It wasn't exactly his fault so I forgave him shortly after. But we had gotten into an argument at my house. He got in his car and tried to leave with my phone. He locked me out the car but I stuck my hands through the open window and grabbed his shirt. I wanted my phone lol. He started moving and he rolled my arms up in the window as much as he could. When he really caught some speed my legs outran each other causing me to get drug by the car and then I fell to the ground. I remember screaming. I was on the road, I sat up, and as I sat up I watched the car run over my leg. I screamed so loud. He felt extremely bad after and rushed me to the emergency room. Thank the lord I was just bruised up and full or road burn. No broken bones or anything. But I did forgive him. Lol. We were young and wild at the time. We're now 18 and 22. We have both grown up so so much. We look back at that night and still laugh!

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