Co parenting

Mercedez

How do you guys coparent with someone successfully? I sort of /never really officially was with my baby boy who’s due in april father. And he’s already trying to talk about having the baby over nights and I’m just not okay with that. Him and his mom wanna have their “own” baby shower for stuff for the baby at their house but I don’t want the baby going over there without me even though the father makes me miserable. Any tips or anything would be helpful! TIA