(TMI) birth control? And advice

Question

Im a 17 year old virgin and my bf is 16 and not (so he says) he always wants to do something sexual but i am not always in the mood (just oral atm)recently he wanted to go all the way but im not on birth control and my mom wont let me ..so i just want to know what my options are and comment how i go about doing so 
I mean if i was to have a baby i think i would be ok because i make good money at my job and he brings home $90 a day but still our ages its not a plan rn plus i dont think my parents would be okay with it due to personal reasons

Answer

If you do not want to have sex, and he is pressuring you to do it, he does not respect you. Relationships are NOT all about sex, and if thats the only thing he is worried about whenever you are together, I might reevaluate the situation and decide whether or not he likes you for you, or if he just likes that you let him do stuff to you. 
I did not know my worth and let alot of boys disrespect me and my body for a few years. They all told me exactly what I wanted to hear, and almost as soon as I would give in a go all the way with them, they would leave me and move on to someone else. I had my heart broken too many times because i trusted the wrong people.
Please know that NO is a complete sentence and you dont have to explain yourself if you do not want to have sex with him. 
Also. You are NOT ready for a baby. I was 20 when i got pregnant, and honey i was not ready for it at all. Now i have a 2 almost 3 year old and I still dont know if im really 'Ready' because I'm still trying to figure out how to be a better adult and get my life together. We live with family because we were not financially stable when we found out we were pregnant. And babies are EXPENSIVE so we havent been able to move into our own home yet.
 Go get on birth control and find a better man. (I am saying all of this with love and concern for you, please dont take it the wrong way!)

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Don’t do it just because he expects it. Do it when YOU want to. Tell him he needs to respect it.

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Go to your local planned parenthood for birth control. You do need your parents consent there. You definitely aren't financially ready for a baby right now.

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I personally don’t believe in any type of contraception. I know it sounds crazy but growing up my mom would never let me take anything. And then when I hit age 18 I decided to get the pills but I was living on my own and my doctor charged me $400 a month and I couldn’t afford it so I put it off for a little while and now I went again to get it because I can afford it now and it’s just I am with someone I love and just think that I don’t need any form of contraception

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Don’t have sex if you aren’t ready, only do it when you both feel ready. I let my first boyfriend pressure me into sex and it’s one of my biggest regrets. 
As for birth control you can always go to planned parenthood or your local heath department. 
If you don’t feel comfortable doing that then Walmart has some options. But regardless you should ALWAYS use a condom, even if he pulls one of those ass lines like,”it feels without one.” Or” they don’t fit.”
Here’s what I found at Walmart

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You can get birth control without parents permission or insurance online at websites like the pill club.

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Your 17 you should be able to get birth control! You need to have a serious conversation with your mom because it’s not right.

(TMI) birth control? And advice

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