Am i being selfish ?

My husband works 14 hours days and comes home, shower, and goes right into his man cave and spend about an hour to two hours in there , leaving the last part of the night for me. Which is usually right before bed. So we rarely get any time together. I understand he has to work and needs to relax a but am I being selfish BC I'm being a needy wife and want him to spend time with me or is he being selfish?