How long would you personally wait?

Question

If you were looking for a serious relationship, in your opinion, how long is your ideal time to wait to make out with/do sexual things with a guy? (after dating for ____ amount of time). It would be awesome if you can specify in the comments too :)

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Making out/sexual things are two very different things to me, so I really can’t answer the poll. 
But, I can say I’ve only ever been with one man for everything. So this is what our timeline looked like (we’ve been together for about 3 & 1/2 years now for context):
Kissing/making out — after like 2 weeks 
Oral sex — after a year
Legitimate sex — almost 3 years

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Dont set up a time period unless you both are like set on waiting until marriage- if it happens it happens. Personally, it's so much better when its spontaneous and unplanned.

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With my fiancé we made out on the first date and slept together on the third date, we'd only been speaking for around 1/2 weeks before meeting. 
Been together over 2 years, have one angel baby and one rainbow, plus been through a cancer scare.
It really doesn't matter how quick or slow you take things it's just if you feel comfortable! If people are meant to be together they will just takes work and communication

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I agree that making out and sex is completely different, and Ive also only has one parter.  for me we kissed the first time after 5 mo, made out after another 3-4 weeks, fingering/bj 9 months, and sex 10 months (yeah we moved pretty slow then kinda fast)

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I waited 2 years hon

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I’m not sure every women is different like sometimes I feel comfortable enough to just do it sometimes I’m like nah I have a feeling that’s all he wants but I just started talking to a guy 2 weeks ago and we both had a crush on each other for 3 years I slept with him once so far and now he just looks and me and smiles every time but I’m the one who teased him into sex 😂but honestly I feel like if you truly trust that person and feel comfortable.

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Hard to answer since those are different. HOWEVER I met my man online unexpectedly... met a week later. Made out & had sex that same day!! I don’t say this is how to do it or how I have ever done it. I wouldn’t ever meet someone online before him lol... well here we are a month away from celebrating our 2 yr wedding anniversary & expecting our 2nd kid together. We got married 5 months after meeting

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I would just make sure that he isn’t only in it for sexual things and take your time, don’t rush into anything. For me it depends on the person, I’ve waited months before I even kissed a guy, sometimes it was a few weeks. It honestly depends on your connection with each other.

How long would you personally wait?

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