Raw & rough for my first time ?

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This boy I’ve known for 8 years wants to have sex (we talk) & wants to go raw . Ima virgin & he knows . He said his pull out game strong . (We are 17) but he also talk about how he gone start off slow then start pounding me . I’m ready for that but Ik it’s gone hurt for my first time so ion know what to do my first time .

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NO. Absolutely freaking not. I mean honestly you might think you know someone but for all you know he has an STD. “My pull out game is sting” is the BIGGEST lie a teenage boy ever tells. The only reason they say that is to get the girl to not make him wear a condom. Do yourself a huge favor and stop talking to that boy. He only cares about sex.

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Please protect yourself and make him wear a condom.  You can get incurable STDs or wind up pregnant even if it’s your first time, and even if he pulls out.

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He's 17, he doesn't know what he's talking about. Wear a condom! If it's your first time, go at YOUR speed. This is reality, not a porn flick.

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As my mom always said “if you’re expecting rain wear a jacket!” Please use a condom 
An STD or Pregnancy are still a chance even if his “pull out game is strong.” I’m a pull out baby.

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Pull out "game" isnt a thing. Pulling out doesnt prevent pregnancy and it certainly doesnt prevent STDs.

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Absolutely not. You shouldn’t even be having sex with him. He’s uneducated and seems to only be worried about what he likes, not how you’ll want to do it. If neither of you know that unprotected sex is risky bc of stds and pregnancy (even when pulling out) then you should prob wait a little longer to have sex. No rush :)

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I'd like to meet whoever said "give it a shot"🙄
NO. N-O. You wanna know what's worse than regretting your first time? Getting pregnant or an STD from your first time. Use your head. 
Also - if he thinks his pull "game" is "strong" that means hes had unprotected sex before and has 1000x more likely to have an STD than say a virgin.

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His “pull out game is strong”. Gross. This does not sound like a boy who cares about you. I know it’s really hard right now to think long term when you are 17 and your hormones are on high alert, but I can promise you when you are 34 (like I am) and look back on this, you will think, “why did I let that stupid boy use me”. You do not have to be in love to lose your virginity or enjoy sex, but you should only be having sex with someone who respects you and cares about you. No boy who wants it “rough and raw” cares about your feelings or your well being. He doesn’t respect you- you need to respect yourself and walk away from him because you deserve SO MUCH BETTER than this. I promise you, you won’t regret caring for yourself.

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He sounds like an absolute moron...
Precum is a thing and can absolutely get you pregnant!

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Girl you should know better! If you don’t, you have no business having sex. The only guarantee you’re not going to get an STD or Pregnant is to use contraceptives (pill and condom). 
Even then there is still a small % chance you can still get pregnant, although it reduces the chances significantly. 
No mans pull out game is that good - he’s just being an immature. Real men wear condoms and don’t complain 🙌 
As for it being your first time - it’s going to be uncomfortable as it is. I’d wait for someone who understands this and treats your body with respect not like some sex toy.

Raw & rough for my first time ?

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