Vent.

So I'm 4 days post partum. My in laws took it upon themselves to drive 2 states to come after the birth without asking if I'm alright for visitors. I won't say my labor was hard but I tore I'm a first time mom and had anxiety before hand. So to say I'm having a hard time is down playing it. Well I play nice they need to meet their grandson, they came over for a few hours today. We had our newborn appt and I really irritated my tear so I wasn't up for more visitors tomorrow and really needed to rest. That and my husband got no time off and will be back to work tomorrow and I didn't want to be alone with them. Well they got pissed said they'd just go home and we don't care about them and MIL said she never felt like I did so she doesn't see the big deal. So they wrote us off and said they will just go home and good luck with everything and we should have told them we didn't want visitors before they drove out here.