Ok...so how do you talk to my husband about this?

Khin • 💖Recently married | 24 | momma to a baby girl 👶🏻

Ok ladies I need your guidance.

My husband And I recently decided to try to conceive. We haven't been trying for very long, only 1-2 months. I have been tracking my cm and activity been trying to learn more about my body and reproductive system. I feel like He's not as into this baby thing than i am Which I can understand cause we're just starting out.

So I took an ovulation test today and it was positive. So here I'm am ready to do the baby dance getting all excited...

So I let him know, give him a little wink wink nudge nudge. But he tells me I shouldn't be keeping track of my ovulation and cm and things like that cause it dampens the mood. Like it makes sex feel like an obligation. 😨😨😨

Side note: he is 10 yrs older than me and lot of his friends have had difficulty conceiving. He's seen a lot of his friends relationships with their wives have become like super stressful. he's worried that will happen to us. 😩

I get it! But also this egg ain't gonna fertilize itself. I don't know how to explain to him that these things work on a schedule.

Has anyone had a similar issue?

Help!