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Why do some ppl look at pregnancy as if it’s something negative. I just don’t Understand, you are supposed to be happy that someone if expecting. Why all the negativity?

Answer

Because not everyone is in the same position as you. Sometimes pregnancy is scary, dread, not longed for or even brought on by situations of pain and hurt. Sometimes the pregnancy isn't a happy situation. So definitely don't try to guilt someone just because they aren't over the moon, you haven't walked a day in their shoes so you don't know the situation

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Generally the only reason I see regarding negativity for pregnancy is because the baby won’t be coming into a safe, secure, and stable environment.

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Where’s the rule written that people are supposed to be happy about a pregnancy?

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I guess it depends on the circumstances.  I was 16 when I got pregnant the first time and I was so young and all happy... when I told my mom she obviously got upset and worried.  
Then I had her and realized WHY my mom had been worries. Because 16 is completely unprepared for a baby and I had ALOT of growing up to do.  Things worked out and now at 35 on my second no one is mad and I am more prepared ❤️
If they are just being judgement all thats one thing, but if the pregnant person is NOT in a good place and doesn’t see that it can be really upsetting to those who love them because they care 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Maybe if the baby will be born in an unhealthy place? Or the parents aren't together? I have a feeling the second one is going to set off my parents when they find out.

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If someone didn’t want to be pregnant, they don’t have to be happy they are. There’s no rule pregnancy HAS to be a good thing. Like most things, it’s a good thing when wanted. It’s a bad thing when it’s not.

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Maybe I’m just different I could never look down on someone else & be like oh your pregnant wow good for u .... or pray on their down fall because of my own personal experiences no I’m not pregnant I was speaking in general. But I do know what it feels like to loss a child it’s not the best feeling but I’m not going to make the next Preston uncomfortable

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