So I'm going to be real here, I am too chicken to use tinder for one night stands so the only reason I have is for the attention lol

But with this situation I was interested in why I saw him in my tinder likes (yes, I have tinder gold!)

I had no intention of even chatting with him for a day! All I wanted to know is why me? (We had work drama in the past all because I knew his girlfriend at the time, the whole situation was completely unnecessary but in the end I blocked his number and thought he was mad at me for immature reasons)

Anyways so the plan was to get his attention by swiping right and matching with him. (btw I'm 22 and he's 26) And I let him send the first message. From there I actually found out more about the situation from back then, we both did actually lol Turns out this friend is super toxic and thought I was into her boyfriend when I, myself, had a boyfriend.

So speeding things up here... We talked some more and he didn't ask to meet up so I thought cool, we're just going to leave at that. Sounds good!

Well, he asked last minute (and this was on New Year's <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> btw) and just completely got too curious for my own good, I actually wanted to meet up but my head at the same time was spinning because of what this could mean!!

Yup, he kissed me when it was midnight. We had a drink downtown and totally had sex at his apartment...

Ladies.... I just came out of almost 5 year relationship last year in September and the sex was better than it was in my long term relationship! What?!!! The crazy thing is too is that I didn't even orgasm yet I was satisfied 😳

The next day he hit me up and took me to a hot tub resort and went skinny-dipping in our hot tub! (it was a private room)

(Had sex there too)

But get this... the sex isn't what I am all frustrated about (of course!)

Throughout the whole two days I spent with him, he paid for everything, we made out a lot, and he kept holding my hand... He also asked if I could stay the night the first time we had sex and we were cuddling before I actually had him drop me off at my place. And he was oddly obsessed with how soft my hair was...

Can someone please explain to me what any of that means?!! I feel clueless on what's going on between us!

We now have been talking on Snapchat almost everyday but not in a full conversation, he also travels for his job so I haven't seen him since that second day.

I did try to understand the situation bit and asked him what were his intentions of our situation so far and he just said that he's just going with whatever happens.

Um... Ladies, am I getting into a friends with benefits situation or are we going somewhere?

I'm starting to get feelings for this guy but of course I am holding back because this could just be for the sex.

Never have I ever been treated with so much respect and received amazing sex by one guy. It was either I got respect but the sex was terrible or great sex but he guy was total shit.

(Also, we were quite talkative in getting to know eachother so I think it's not about just the sex?)

How should I take all of this???