Does your SO give you regular massages? How many times a week?

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My husband is a douche canoe every time I ask him for a massage (which is very rare). I usually ask for a back massage when my cramps are so bad I can’t stand up, or a similar situation. He said “what married couple do you know that give massages?” And I don’t know any married couples cuz I don’t have friends and so I don’t have an answer. To which he replies “exactly, none.” Like I’m sure there are husbands out there who give massages right?

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If I ask him he always says yes!!
I don’t want to get greedy though, so I only ask every once and a while! 😊

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I see a professional massage therapist once per month (twice if my back is really acting up). My therapist is educated in how the body is constructed. I trust him as much as any doctor. 
My partner does not have the same training or knowledge. I would never ask him to give me an actual massage, one where I’m actually trying to get something fixed. Sure, he can rub my back or shoulders, but that is not at all the same as a deep-tissue massage that puts muscles back where they belong.

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I don’t ask often but when I do he does :)

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My husband and I trade massages.  We work on a farm so something usually hurts or is sore at the end of the day.

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I can get a boob massage and I can get a butt rub lol If I give him a massage it’s a good solid 20+ mins if I’m lucky to get one it might be 2 mins 💁🏼‍♀️

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My husband rubs lotion on my feet every night when we get into bed. It's started 2 years ago when I was pregnant and just stuck. He even reminds me if I forget. I love that man lol.

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I get booty massages (almost daily but he likes it too so I can’t complain), back massages, foot massages, the whole shebang. Sometimes my man will even ask for one and I always give him one too

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Whenever I ask him to he will give me a massage and vice versa

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Our nightly routine is to give each a back/head rub while we watch a couple of our recorded shows. He gets an hour show then I do or vice versa. Our alone time after the kids go to bed is very important to us. So yeah, we get rubs/massages nightly!

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Yes most definitely! My husband is very generous in all aspects, but especially when I’m in pain or sore, he offers one to me every day (literally), and happily does it each time I accept... but I try not to take advantage of it, I don’t ever want him to get tired of doing it... to which he always says he never could because he gets to see me feel better. Ahh I love him.☺️💕

Does your SO give you regular massages? How many times a week?

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