Okay y’all so I’ve been with my fiancé now for 3 years and in those three years we’ve had sex, and have had a child together. He recently proposed in December and I’m honestly thinking about wanting to wait until marriage. I mean is that even a thing since we’ve already had sex?? I think him and I have gotten caught up in just the “routine” of things and of course we love each other but it just doesn’t feel super special anymore. Does anyone have any experiences with this!? Thanks!!

Oh and I’d also love to get the lord more in our relationship, any advice for that!?