I just did something that totally rubs me the wrong way. My SO has twin boys with his ex. BACKGROUND: She broke up with him when she was about 24 weeks pregnant; she wanted to get back together, but we had already started dating. We’d been dating about 8 weeks when she found out so she’s been hating me ever since. The boys turned 4 today.

Anyway, I watch them on Mondays and Tuesdays because my SO works. Normally he’s around when she picks them up but today she wanted them early because it’s their birthday. No problem except that means my SO isn’t around for the pick up. So I was instructed to just put their car seats on the porch; put their coats on, open the front door, and push them outside for her to get them. 🙄. I did it but it just felt wrong and callous. I looked out the window and the boys were running around on the side of the house. The car seats are heavy and she had two to get in her car so the kids were doing what kids do.....run around.

I’ve got kids and grandkids and wouldn’t do them like that and it feels so wrong to do these boys like that. I really don’t like being put in this position. It’s all because their mother hates me and still says stuff about wanting to fight me 🙄.....but doesn’t she know after all this time that I’m not a problem for the kids. Like can’t you get past your hate for the sake of your kids? If I was so terrible would the kids even like me? Can’t we all just grow tf up?