Help...!!!

So I’m scared to be eaten out all my friends have (I’m 16) and at this point I’m scared the guy that I do choose to this with will think my inner labia and my vulva is to big and gross!!! And I know that if he doesn’t like it he’s not worth it but are there any lady’s out there that have larger inner labia and at my age felt insecure but it worked out fine?😂🤭