my boyfriends boyfriend is this upcoming sunday and i had a bunch of stuff in mind and planned out that i wanted to do for him. i want to put balloons and presents in his room while he’s not home so when he gets home he will be surprised but i need to ask his dad permission first. my boyfriend hasn’t told his dad about us yet and i don’t think he wants his dad to know. i was planning on texting or calling his dad and just saying hey i’m a good friend of your son i was wondering... and so on but i’m not sure if i should bc i’m scared my boyfriend will be mad at me for telling his dad or showing up to his house to meet his dad and drop off gifts. i wanted to send this message to his dad “hi mr vogel this is westons good friend i was wondering if for his birthday i could arrange something and surprise him? i had something in mind but i wanted to ask you if it would be okay first” but i’m not sure.. what’s everyone’s thoughts??