Diva cup questions!!!😩

So I finally tried the diva cup today, and it seems to be in fully and I rotated it as it said to to make sure it opens up and places right (really not fun with acrylic nails- kept pinching myself😭) I wanted to ask to make sure it was normal to feel like it’s sticking out a tiny bit when I sit down to go to the bathroom, almost like it’s gonna slide out but I know it isn’t- just feels as if it is. Also is it normal for there to be a tiny bit of blood on the tip that’s sticking out? At first I thought it was leaking but then thought it may just be the blood that was there from when I removed the cup. Don’t really like how thick and hard the diva cup is so was maybe going to switch to the soft cup... any tips? I feel so clueless and like I’m gonna mess up somehow😂😭 also at first when I inserted it it couldn’t go up any further and the tip at the end was sticking out a tiny bit and now it feels like it’s really up there?!