Mom inviting people to the hospital?

My plans were when i go into labor in the hospital only my SO and my mother will be there until after the baby is born,but today i found out my mom has been "inviting" people to go to the hospital to help her out while she helps me out. I dont know what to do i feel so depressed now i thought that moment was suppose to be about me and my baby and now i feel like shes turning it into a party and wont even pay attention to me because thats how she is when theres others around.. I cant stop crying because she always does this to me i try to share special moments with her and she ALWAYS adds people into it but i cannot believe she would do that for when im in the hospital 😢 and i dont want to be mean to her 😢 what would you guys do in this situation??