Should I find out the sex without bf

Ayesha

Well we had it planned to find out January 26th for my dads surprise birthday party now that my dads wants to pay for a 4d his wife is suggesting to still find out his birthday weekend too

Or we will have to wait until feb 16th

I had an ultrasound today

And I just can’t wait till February!

We had Jan 26th planned now all of a sudden he can’t take off work but can take off for the super bowl! I feel like he is being selfish he runs his own business!

So a part of me is wanting to find out alone secretly so I can start buying clothes and then I’ll just be “surprised” when we do the family ultrasound in February