SPACE or EMOTIONAL ABUSE?!

Aja • Escapist. Healer. OT🌸

I want to know how some of you feel about space with your partner when times are hard. I’ve been with my SO a year and a half and every Time I confront him with a issue I’m having with him he feels the need to go no contact, won’t text back or answer calls. This goes on for days until he is ready to talk and then comes back around like nothing happened without addressing the issue but makes the changes I ask of him and puts in the effort. Do you think this is a healthy way to deal with issues or is it in some way emotional abuse?