Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. Im 21 and hes 24. We've come so far since the beginning and have even settled down into our own place (3years ago) have jobs etc. We've briefly talked about kids before but he kinda avoids the topic. We do take care of our godson who's now 6 from time to time and hes great with him. Always has been since he was a baby. He keeps saying he wants to wait until we have a better house amd better jobs but the thing is - we don't exactly prevent it and we've used ONLY the pull out method since day 1.

Im struggling because my one (and literally only) friend is pregnant and shes due in March. My brother (19) and his girlfriend are expecting a baby in May. And my sister (15) just found out she is pregnant today. Its so hard to watch these people who dont even have a safe place to raise kids, having these babies. Its my dream and im watching everyone else live it 😭