(If I sound really awkward writing this, I’m a Virgin who doesn’t really know anything about pleasuring myself and I get embarrassed talking about anything sexual)

I bought myself a toy and have been using it for quite a while and had my first big orgasm with it. I used almost everyday because my sex drive was so through the roof, I contemplated going with a one night stand for my first time because I was just desperate as hell(thankfully, I didn’t go through with it). The past few months, my hormones have been going all over the place for personal reasons and my sex drive has been basically at an all time low and I’ve tried using the toy and I haven’t gotten ONE orgasm from it. I’m so frustrated because I felt great after my orgasms and now I can’t even get one. I usually get very close to orgasming and then it just stops all together. Does anyone have any tips to help start my drive back up?

Edit: I should of specified this but I don’t try to masturbate everyday anymore because I can’t get off. I try maybe every few weeks and that’s why I was asking if anyone had tips on how to start it back up haha.