In need of serious advice 😩😩

I’m 33wks pregnant and I feel like my boyfriends mom is intimidated by the baby... he’s 33 and an only child and I feel like she is purposely trying to come between us.... he NEVER wants to really talk about it and he’s VERY over protective of her even though he sees first hand her lack of support when it comes to our baby... I do love this man but I feel like if he can’t call a spade a spade I can’t really deal with him and it’s beginning to take a strain on our relationship... like to the point I don’t want her (“grandmother”) to even come to the hospital when I have my baby... am I wrong for feeling like that... I feel like I’m constantly putting in effort and putting my pride to the side to make this work for the sake of my boyfriend but I’m tired of the bullshit... he’s way to much of a momma boy for me at this point... according to him she is always asking him for money to the point he has yet to buy anything for our child and it’s like he CANT or DOESNT know how to say no... should I just leave it alone or speak on this matter again🤔