Looking for cycle buddy

I was supposed to have Af show up 8/28 still waiting have had some cramps and very light blood when I wipe off and on not every time. I took a test this afternoon and it was bfn. So still awaiting Af or bfp. Anyone in the same boat? I normally have 28 day cycle and spot are ovulation sometimes longer but this month it was off and on just when wipe and then spotted for days and back only like once a day never enough for a liner or anything. I'm 33 and husband is 34 been trying for number 1 for about 5 months.