Its never okay to ask about baby plans?

That’s definitely not a casual question you should throw around to strangers and acquaintances. Like I can see asking your best friend or your sister or something like that... but otherwise you never know if you’re asking someone if they are planning on having kids while they had a miscarriage the week before.

Its inappropriate, period. I straight up tell people I want another child, but my uterus doesn't want to cooperate and thank them for reminding me that my body is failure. They shut right up and I hope that my honesty makes them think twice before asking someone else about having children.🤷‍♀️ Not to mention, not everyone wants kids! It's not anyone else's business when or if someone has children.

It’s not that serious. Honestly. I got asked that a lot when I first got married. I wasn’t offended.

I agree with everything you said and posted, HOWEVER, she is a celebrity and celebrities are notoriously asked these questions non stop. It’s part of the deal in this day in age of being famous (not just talking about actors or singers either), of course she doesn’t have to give an answer. Its not a recent thing either, reporters have been asking that question of famous people for decades. So although I understand her anger and she has every right to it, she can’t pretend she didn’t expect the question to be asked. That being said, I hope she uses her anger with the question and situation towards setting different and better standards for famous women and women all over the world. Like I said though, I agree with everything stated by the OP.

I don’t think people casually throw out the baby question to people they don’t know well. And even if they do “do you want kids” isn’t a crazy question to ask someone. People have kids, people don’t, it’s just a question. In this case, she is a star, she basically signed up to have her life interrogated so she need to chill with the overreaction.

So people are just curious and genuinely interested in someone’s life. Asking about someone’s future isn’t insulting. Now if someone is always asking the same questions that have been asked and answered then it can be annoying. Or if someone is telling u what u should do that is insulting.

I don’t think people should be asking others when they are having kids. First of all, it’s assuming that they even want kids. Second of all, I think that’s such an invasive question. Really, who’s business is it, but that couples. I never understood why people care so much what others do with their genitals. A third thing is, you never know what people are going through. You ask a woman that and she could very well be ttc and it just hasn’t worked out yet. She could also of already had several miscarriages. I had slot of people ask me about babies right after I got married and it was super annoying. I also had a family member ask when we are starting a family at thanksgiving in 2017, when I was actively bleeding from my second miscarriage. It was super upsetting. This is why I never ask people this incredibly personal question.

I hate when people ask me that. No matter how many times I said "We aren't having kids" it is so hard for them to wrap their heads around. It has only increased since I was diagnosed and had surgery to remove the cancer. I don't have a uterus anymore so piss off. I now just ask them how the bowel movements are. The look is so worth it. When they ask why I asked I say "Well since we are asking inappropriate questions."

I agree. I also believe people should stop asking “is this your last one?”. Are you supporting me?? Then stfu

Hate it. It used to really annoy me. Now I just ask an equally inappropriate question and that shuts them right up. I’m done being uncomfortable because people are thoughtless.