I'm a virgin and recently met up with a boy I've been talking to on tinder. We've sexted before etc, so I was nervous about expectations About hooking up. Before I went over to his house I told him I didn't want to do anything besides kiss / I just wanted to cuddle and hangout. When I went over there he ended up raping me and after told me he thought I was joking every time I said no. I feel like this is mostly my fault because of sexting in the weeks prior to meeting and I just need advice of others that I don't know/ opinions.