So i just had my second miscarriage. The first one was early and natural. This one was much further along and i had to have a d&c. I lost quite a bit of blood during the surgery and I'm recovering slowly. Im 40 years old and it took almost 2 years to get pregnant after the first pregnancy. Im not even sure what i want to write, or if i have any questions or if i just needed to put this in writing somewhere. We had just told all of our coworkers and family members at Christmas. The day after i heard the heartbeat, and by Tuesday she was gone. The doctor said she had been gone for at least a few weeks and was only measuring 15 weeks and 2 days instead of 19 weeks. We got the d&c scheduled for Thursday and several family members came to support my wife and i. I lost almost a liter of blood during the surgery which they stated was more than a woman usually loses during a c-section. The blood loss has thrown off my bgl, and my blood pressure and this doesnt even count on the hormone levels. I hate to worry my wife further, and i know she continues to worry about me, and i worry about her also.