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we’ve been having problems and we’ve been speaking about it, but we never speak anymore and i said this to him n he goes “i’m gonna take a shower”
when i’m crying over our relationship?? i think this was highly dumb on his part

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i personally think you're overreacting but to each their own

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“We’ve been having problems and we speak about it but we never speak anymore” .... you are a walking contradiction. You are being extra. Clearly you want something very specific from him so just cut to the chase and say what that is instead of trying to let him figure it out on his own because this is going to get old fast.

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I feel like you should just chill and stop overthinking

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Hun calm down. He’s being supportive you’re just focusing on the fact he needs to wash his butt. Bet money he will text or call as soon as he is done. Distance is hard but not impossible

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Sometimes showers help you think. He is a guy, after all. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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I was feeling like that in some stages of my relationship.. whenever I was.. my bf would ring me up straight away and try to talk to me to sort it out.. I wouldn’t waste my time on this guy.. he’s not being there for u.

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Always remember, a girlfriend/sister can validate your feelings those are the ones you reach out too. Boyfriend just don’t know how ..

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Are you emotional? 😔💔

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That would hurt my feelings too. Most guys that are really invested in a relationship would be there to talk through it with you until they knew you felt better then go take a shower. Maybe he’s just clueless and thinks his explanation for it will solve it and he moves on.

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