Me and my fiance are getting married this September, we have faced a lot together, his daughter starting drama any chance we get, but we come out stronger everytime! For those with gaps, dont worry about the little things, make sure they treat you right, and you treat them right. Most older people out there dont want the drama or the cheating, they just want a partner to spend their days with. K have always said, and always will, it's not the quantity of time that matters, it's the quality. I'll take short years with this many any day, over 50 or 60 with the wrong man!